Blog Post
By Eddie Summers (member at Michael Sobell Jewish Community Centre)
Becoming accustomed to a new way of living when cruelly deprived of a loved one, is very difficult indeed, but I am trying to do just that. I have to say that so far, my attempt is proving beneficial, even therapeutic, although the loss remains traumatic.
When my wife Jacqueline, passed away only recently, I was bereft and inconsolable, as you can imagine. In order to divert my mind and thoughts, I decided to take the advice of well-meaning family and friends by attending a community centre. Hopefully, this would lift me out of my sadness and depression, stop me moping at home, give me other things to think about, and possibly satisfy my various interests.
I had never been to one of these places, so did not quite know what to expect. But now I have to report that it was a revelation.
The reception and greeting I received at the Michael Sobell Jewish Community Centre was little short of incredible. Friendly, warm, unbelievably enthusiastic. I was even helped taking my coat off upon entering the cloakroom! So far, so good. A staff member and a volunteer then showed me around the premises before settling me down at a nearby table in the restaurant, where I was immediately served with tea and toast. The food, incidentally, especially lunch was reasonably priced and subsidised by Jewish Care.
I stayed for the whole day (10am-3pm) absorbing an extremely chummy, atmosphere, then participated in one of the many activities – a combined quiz/discussion. I have to emphasise the hospitality shown by the staff and volunteers. They simply could not do enough to ensure our comfort and enjoyment. They made every one of us feel special. No praise for them is too high.
It took me only a short time to make many friends. I met a married couple I already knew, and hadn’t seen for many years, which was nice. Another couple I encountered were once close friends of my late brother, Bernie.
A special MSJCC service is the Care Bus. At minimal cost, this door-to-door service is imperative for people who would otherwise have problems with transportation.
The Centre, over three days, provides a host of activities and facilities, ensuring that everyone is accommodated. It’s a wonderful place for anyone seeking friendship and jollity. As a newcomer to the world of community centres, I would not attempt to influence prospective visitors one way or another. All I can say is, I joined as a full member, paid the annual modest fee, and will pop in every so often. Be assured that the observations are simply my own impressions, brought about by a tragic occurrence.
I can only be guided by my own experience. If I have presented a fairly accurate picture of life in a community centre, well, I feel that I have fulfilled an important purpose.